Remembering Mr. Murphy
Those of you,who remember the Murphy’s that lived on the corner of Wainwright Circle East and Colin Kelley for so many years, will be saddened to hear of the passing of Dick Murphy last night. He came from a large family of eight siblings who all grew up in Redbank living in close quarters as many of us did. However I think it must have been challenging with eight kids. He lived there when the plane crashed. He was married to Patricia (Doodie) Murphy and recently celebrated their 50th anniversary. Their children; Mark, Alicia, Darrin and Laurie and extended families all went to Jamaica a short while ago. The Murphy’s were very involved in the community where they lived. They were active role models for their grandchildren, Michael and Justin and were involved in all their school activities as well. My own son ,JT, spent a great deal of time at the Murphy’s home. Family was the most important to each of the Murphy’s as they nurtured and gave their support always.
My Aunt remembers Dick Murphy when they were both young students at the new school at Redbank. I believe he was the same age as her, born in 1935. She said the talent shows at the Community Center were a big draw. Dick Murphy can best be remembered for his beautiful singing voice.
I did not have the pleasure of knowing the Murphy’s when I was younger, though I did recognize who they were in the Community. It was not until I moved in after I had been married a short while that I became reacquainted with them again. We had many laughs on the front porch sitting on Doodie’s swing with a pull down bamboo shade, having drinks that Dick had mixed for us. He used to make a nice Bloody Mary with Clamato and celery. He and I both worked for the phone company. He was a veteran technician who climbed poles and worked in the bucket trucks for many years before I started there. He weathered working outdoors during the Ice Storm, working long hours. He was the kind of person you could talk to and he would listen. You cannot teach someone skills like he had with people. He was well respected amongst his coworkers. He was genuine, trustworthy and a wonderful man. He loved his wife and it showed , the best gift any father can give his children. He had integrity and class. I am sitting here tonight thinking of his family’s loss. I am also thinking of the loss of a friend. He had my deepest respect. He and Doodie raised a top notch family. The family was always first. Thank you, Mr. Dick Murphy for all you gave to the community and to your family and friends. You will be sadly missed.
My Aunt remembers Dick Murphy when they were both young students at the new school at Redbank. I believe he was the same age as her, born in 1935. She said the talent shows at the Community Center were a big draw. Dick Murphy can best be remembered for his beautiful singing voice.
I did not have the pleasure of knowing the Murphy’s when I was younger, though I did recognize who they were in the Community. It was not until I moved in after I had been married a short while that I became reacquainted with them again. We had many laughs on the front porch sitting on Doodie’s swing with a pull down bamboo shade, having drinks that Dick had mixed for us. He used to make a nice Bloody Mary with Clamato and celery. He and I both worked for the phone company. He was a veteran technician who climbed poles and worked in the bucket trucks for many years before I started there. He weathered working outdoors during the Ice Storm, working long hours. He was the kind of person you could talk to and he would listen. You cannot teach someone skills like he had with people. He was well respected amongst his coworkers. He was genuine, trustworthy and a wonderful man. He loved his wife and it showed , the best gift any father can give his children. He had integrity and class. I am sitting here tonight thinking of his family’s loss. I am also thinking of the loss of a friend. He had my deepest respect. He and Doodie raised a top notch family. The family was always first. Thank you, Mr. Dick Murphy for all you gave to the community and to your family and friends. You will be sadly missed.
I thank God for families like the Murphy's. When you are a child, it is families like the Murphy's that give you security and a place of belonging in your world. The stability of the Murphy's in our neighborhood gave me a sense of safety in a great big world that I knew I would venture into one day. Thank you to the Murphy's and other families in my neighborhood of Redback who helped me grow into the strong and secure person I am today.
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I do not remember the Murphys i am sad to say.It sounds like they were one of the typical Families who lived there though.We didnt have alot of material things but we had the closeness of families that i think is missing today.My condolences to the Family,if i may say the First Family of Redbank
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